There is a
story many years ago of an elementary teacher. Her
name was Mrs. Thompson. And as she stood in front
of her 5th grade class on the very first day of
school, she told the children a lie. Like most
teachers, she looked at her students and said that
she loved them all the same. But that was
impossible, because there in the front row, slumped
in his seat, was a little boy named Teddy Stoddard.
Mrs. Thompson
had watched Teddy the year before and noticed that
he didn't play well with the other children, that
his clothes were messy and that he constantly
needed a bath. And Teddy could be unpleasant. It
got to the point where Mrs. Thompson would actually
take delight in marking his papers with a broad red
pen, making bold X's and then putting a big "F"at
the top of his papers.
At the school
where Mrs. Thompson taught, she was required to
review each child's past records and she put
Teddy's off until last. However, when she reviewed
his file, she was in for a surprise.
Teddy's first
grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is a bright child with
a ready laugh. He does his work neatly and has good
manners ... he is a joy to be around."
His second
grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is an excellent
student, well liked by his classmates, but he is
troubled because his mother has a terminal illness
and life at home must be a struggle."
His third
grade teacer wrote, "His mother's death has been
hard on him. He tries to do his best but his father
doesn't show much interest and his home life will
soon affect him if some steps aren't taken."
Teddy's
fourth grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is withdrawn and
doesn't show much interest in school. He doesn't
have many friends and sometimes sleeps in class."
By now, Mrs.
Thompson realized the problem and she was ashamed
of herself. She felt even worse when her students
brought her Christmas presents, wrapped in
beautiful ribbons and bright paper, except for
Teddy's. His present which was clumsily wrapped in
the heavy, brown paper that he got from a grocery
bag.
Mrs. Thompson
took pains to open it in the middle of the other
presents. Some of the children started to laugh
when she found a rhinestone bracelet with some of
the stones missing, and a bottle that was one
quarter full of perfume. But she stifled the
children's laughter when she exclaimed how pretty
the bracelet was, putting it on, and dabbing some
of the perfume on her wrist.
Teddy
Stoddard stayed after school that day just long
enough to say, "Mrs. Thompson, today you smelled
just like my Mom used to." After the children left
she cried for at least an hour.
On that very
day, she quit teaching reading, and writing, and
arithmetic. Instead, she began to teach children.
Mrs. Thompson
paid particular attention to Teddy. As she worked
with him, his mind seemed to come alive. The more
she encouraged him, the faster he responded. By the
end of the year, Teddy had become one of the
smartest children in the class and, despite her lie
that she would love all the children the same,
Teddy became one of her "teacher's pets."
A year later,
she found a note under her door, from Teddy,telling
her that she was still the best teacher he ever had
in his whole life.
Six years
went by before she got another note from Teddy. He
then wrote that he had finished high school, third
in his class, and she was still the best teacher he
ever had in his whole life.
Four years
after that, she got another letter, saying that
while things had been tough at times, he'd stayed
in school, had stuck with it, and would soon
graduate from college with the highest of honors.
He assured Mrs. Thompson that she was still the
best and favorite teacher he ever had in his whole
life.
Then four
more years passed and yet another letter came. This
time he explained that after he got his bachelor's
degree, he decided to go a little further. The
letter explained that she was still the best and
favorite teacher he ever had. But now his name was
a little longer --the letter was signed, Theodore
F. Stoddard, M.D.
The story
doesn't end there. You see, there was yet another
letter that spring. Teddy said he'd met this girl
and was going to be married. He explained that his
father had died a couple of years ago and he was
wondering if Mrs. Thompson might agree to sit in
the place at the wedding that was usually reserved
for the mother of the groom.
Of course,
Mrs. Thompson did. And guess what? She wore that
bracelet, the one with several rhinestones missing.
And she made sure she was wearing the perfume that
Teddy remembered his mother wearing on their last
Christmas together.
They hugged
each other, and Dr. Stoddard whispered in Mrs.
Thompson's ear,
"Thank you
Mrs. Thompson for believing in me. Thank you so
much for making me feel important and showing me
that I could make a difference."
Mrs.
Thompson, with tears in her eyes, whispered back.
She said, "Teddy, you have it all wrong. You were
the one who taught me that I could make a
difference. I didn't know how to teach until I met
you."
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